He told me I would have to get an apartment and a job. Unless, of course, I wanted to stay there with them! Huh? My daughter came to my rescue letting me know in no uncertain terms would I be getting an apartment or a job. I was coming to live with her. So, I packed up all my antiques, treasures and quilts. Put everything but my bedroom and sewing room in storage and moved on.
Fast forward through all the painful events of the last year...losing someone I love and trusted completly, financial troubles and finally divorce. I'll spare you the details.
I'm telling you all this because so many times this last year I wanted to stop blogging. Stop showing you what I was working on, stop posting about the Tootie Girls and close my blog. I've hardly had anything to say. Not to mention almost losing my desire for quilting.
I'm better now. Not 100%, just better than I was. I'm going to keep blogging because it does inspire me. I just felt like I needed to tell you what was going on in my life.
Now, on to much happier thoughts!

16 comments:
It is very brave of you to share the story of your difficult year. I'm so glad to hear that you have come through the darkest part. With your daughter, the Tooties and quilting, there is sure to be a little sunshine in your life every day! *hugs*
Sometimes life can really throw us a curve ball. But one thing about quilting, it can really perk up your spirits and push the bad thoughts away. It seems that things are getting better now for you, especially with those cute Tootie girls around. Those nine-patch blocks are looking good.
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear about your worst nightmare and challenge in your life. I hope you've started the healing process and tried to enjoy the real blessings in your life.
BIG Hugs for you!!!
Well, your post certainly explains alot...for a while there I just thought you were just a very, very Quiet Quilter. Now, I see why. While I'm sure the actual experience was far more unpleasant than the breezy way in which you've described it, I'm glad to hear things are, at least, better and that you're soldiering on. Thank you for sharing this bit of yourself and may you find your quilting mojo once more.
Happy quilting,
QuiltnMama
I'm so glad you are healing and can begin this new chapter in your life with such a brave attitude. May you find an abundance of joy in quilting again.
Bless your heart! What a devistating nightmare. I am glad you moved on and are enjoying the blessings in your life with your family who loves you. And that you are still sharing on your blog with your friends. Your ex is a sad cliche. Just saying!
Oh such a difficult time, I cannot imagine. I'm glad that you have continued to share your quilting - it truly shows your heart and my prayers are that it will be healed and you will continue to soar to new heights! The Tootie girls are the best!
Blessings
Hi there, What a courageous woman you are-not only to go through that horrid experience, to grow on the other side of it, to continue on to live but also to share here with us. I've been married for 33 yrs and I think I'd be in jail if my many did this cause I'd kill him-j.k. I'm glad you've moved on and am quilting again-it is theraputic. What a comfort you can offer to others in the same situation.
Hugs, Noreen
I am so very sorry you have had to go through this...so many of us have. I am glad you are posting and quilting and enjoying those tooties!!
I'm so sorry you had to go through all of this...I can't even begin to understand what you have gone through. But I am glad you are here and getting back into quilting. I've followed your blog since the little Tooties were in their little Bumbo seats! I look forward to many more posts!! Lots of Hugs to you!!
You've been through so much. But hang there. Your a wonderful lady and it is going to get better!
And you inspire us!!!! You are a strong and courageous woman. With a great daughter and family. I have followed you preTootie and have enjoyed so much seeing them grow up. Stay encouraged. You are needed and appreciated.
{{HUGS}}!!! I feel your pain as my divorce was finalized yesterday. I had been married just 15 years, but it was hard to let go.
Since I have a 6 year old, I did decide to quit blogging, I think it's almost been a year now! I plan to get back to it this September!
I'm sooooo much happier now though, no eggshells to walk on, I'm at peace in my heart and I and my son are healthy and happy!!
You are in my thoughts, thanks for sharing.
Thank you SO much for sharing your ordeal - it gives others inspiration to know that we can make it through. THANK YOU!
I'm glad for your sweet daughter (and SIL) to step up. Don't the little ones keep life marching on, too? Blessings to you, I'm saying a prayer for brighter days to come.
:-}pokey
Oh my goodness...what a terrible year you've had. I had no idea...I've always enjoyed stopping in from time to time to see how the girls have grown. I'm so glad you had the tooties to help distract you from all that stress. Sure hope that quilting helps to stitch your life back together. Take good care of yourself.
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